Wednesday 18 May 2011

Absence makes the heart grow fonder...

I certainly hope that saying applies to blogs too.  I know I've been a very absent blogger the past couple of months.  I do fully blame my new job as I've barely had time to do College work, let alone post entries on here... But it's a lazy Wednesday afternoon and I've found the time to make myself known again.

I have tonnes of things to report on, however I firstly want to focus on the lack of imaginative fashion at the moment.  Don't get me wrong, I have no doubt that the designers at Chanel, Prada and Alexander McQueen are still reeling out extreme, individual pieces... however, I'm referring to the high street designers.  Topshop, H&M, River Island... those sorts of places.  I have been left feeling a little more than just deflated at the selection of choice in the high street stores this Spring.  I know it's not just me being picky either.  Working at Bar Lounge in Chester over the May races allowed me to get first glances at the dresses.  I'm a big racing fan, but I'd never go to Chester races.  Too busy, too crowded and it's mainly full of stuck up, arrogant mid-40's men and women who actually don't have two pennies to rub together, but a tidy win on one of the horses somehow gives them the right to look down on others.  BUT, I do look forward to the races for one reason and one reason only... and that's the outfits.
And I'm not going to lie, I was bitterly disappointed with the selection.  I can honestly say I saw about three women who I thought looked elegantly gorgeous... the rest either looked like they were trying way too hard, were showing too much flesh for their age or hadn't a clue what fashion was. (I.E the dress you wore the last time you went to the races, 3 years ago, is no longer acceptable).

However, one girl came into Bar Lounge looking incredible and she had on the FCUK Shelby's summer maxi dress that I have had my eye on since it came out in the Chester store.


This dress is simple yet effective and it screams sophisticated and elegant.  The young girl looked beautiful and it genuinely was the only dress that impressed me over the 3 days.

There's another race day this Saturday and if you're going, my main tip on looking the part would be DON'T TRY TOO HARD.  You're coming to Chester to watch horses run around a race course, you're not attending a debutante ball in Los Angeles.  Also, remember what time of year it is... go for creams and corals... not blacks.

Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir.
Tout Mon Amour,

Neen x

Wednesday 6 April 2011

"Being a woman is a terribly difficult trade as it consists principally of dealing with men."

I'm in one of those horrendous moods where not even online shopping could cheer me up.  The worst part is, that I can't even blame my mood on someone else...it's all my own fault.  I've let myself get into a crappy mood over a BOY!  I also use the term 'boy' strongly because despite being 21, he's nowhere near deserving the 'Man' status.  Now, my blog is about fashion and I'm not about to turn this into some relationship themed post, however I just needed to vent my anger.
The male species is my least favourite thing at the moment and I even turned down a night out tonight due to feeling so rubbish.  So, in order to cheer myself up I'm going to tell you all about this fabulous vintage shop that has recently opened around the corner from my flat.  Yes, that's right... I am lucky enough to have a vintage store 5 minutes from where I live.  In fact, tomorrow I intend on going to spend money I don't have in there to cheer myself up :)

It's called Berkin's Wonder Emporium and the quaint store is deceptively large. Whilst it is rather narrow, it is very long and the 3 girls who run it have managed to pack in so much stock to such a restricted space.

    
The whole experience of walking around the store was so enjoyable.  It's so peaceful and relaxing to browse all the beautiful vintage clothes, bags and shoes.  I've always been a fan of vintage stores but it's so hard to find one that actually has things that you would wear.  Usually, I peruse vintage stores just for the enjoyment I get from it but here, I liked so much of the stuff I was shocked.

I bought 2 items.

This gorgeous black leather clutch.  It's so dainty and delicate, I feel like Audrey Hepburn with it slung over my shoulder. 

Also, these figure hugging, high waisted denim shorts. They are the softest denim I've ever felt and they fit so perfectly, it's impossible not to feel amazing in them.

So there you have it.  My first vintage purchases of my life.  
If you live in the Cheshire area, I strongly recommend going to check out Berkin's Wonder Emporium... it's a dream come true for any lovers of fashion. 

Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir,
Tout Mon Amour,
Neen X

Saturday 2 April 2011

Hot and dangerous, if you're one of us then roll with us...

I'm alive. Just incase any of you thought otherwise.  I suppose I became a bit complacent with my blog and I do apologise.  In my defence, I've just got a new job so I've been burning the candle at both ends so to speak... and now I've been ill for the past 3 weeks.  Also, I have a month to complete 13 assignments before my A-Level exams.
Anyway, no more excuses. I'm back now and I genuinely do have LOADS of stuff to write about.  Today is only a quickie, as I'm off out tonight with my 2 gorgeous friends and I need to go and make myself look beautiful...

Remember my previous blog about how Next had suddenly gotten fashionable again?  Well, I must admit that I spoke a bit too soon... it veered downhill again a month or so back.  I was so disappointed because I had such high hopes.  It pleases me when I find things in Next that I like as their clothes are so well made and their prices are reasonable too.
However, it's back in my good books as of today.  I had a quick snoop around Next today and look what I bought:


I have been dying for a pair of heels like this for ages now and I found them for a mere £25... even better I got 10% off as there was an ever so slight mark on the platform.
:) great success.

I'll write again soon :)

Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir,
Tout Mon Amour,
Neen x

Monday 7 March 2011

Here comes the sun... little darlin'

I'm fully optimistic for a brilliant Summer.  I have all sorts planned including a trip to Paris, V festival, Wakestock and a girly holiday.  But I am most optimistic for the British weather.  I think that since we suffered through that horrendous and somewhat unexpected Winter, that nature will reward our survival skills with glorious sunshine this Summer... however, my friends do tell me I'm blindly optimistic all the time... usually to my disadvantage.
Anyway, in my usual 'rose tinted glasses' style, I took the hour of sunshine we had today in my stride and dressed the part.  I even drove round town with my car's roof down and a bit of Avril Lavigne blasting out my speakers (because I'm THAT cool.)
Here's my outfit:

I have to admit that I'm irrevocably in love with this cardigan.  It's from Topshop (pause for sarcastic comment and roll of the eyes) and it set me back a hefty £45 when I couldn't afford it... but it's gorgeous.
My outfit is pretty much the basis of my style for the rest of this month.  The chunky, wool cardigans have been put in the spare room wardrobe to make way for slightly thinner but still warm cottons.  The tights of course are still a staple in my wardrobe but I've gone for high waisted shorts paired with a lacy, see-through cream top. It's long sleeved so slightly added warmth!  I wore the outfit with my black ankle boots but I feel that it would have been better paired with a pair of brogues... unfortunately, mine kill my feet.  Still, I do genuinely feel in a better mood when I know I have a nice outfit on.  However, by the end of my day I had ate far too much chocolate with the best friend, and therefore it didn't feel so sexy then... that was when the hoody and leggings made their inevitable appearance.    

Before I go, (I promise I have better posts lined up) I need to ask 3 favours of you oh faithful readers.  
1.  If you read this blog, PLEASE tell your friends about it and anyone you think may enjoy it.  I love knowing that people enjoy what I write, even if I have been neglectful recently.
2.  Also, if you haven't already, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE become a 'follower' of my blog.  If you go to the bottom of this webpage, you'll see a little link saying 'become a follower' and it really does just take 2 minutes.  It would mean a lot to see if I can get my numbers up a bit! 
3. If any of you are any good at HTML, please can you comment and let me know how on earth I get rid of the silly white borders that appear around my pictures.  I have already tried adding border:0; and .no_border {border: 0;} but nothing seems to work.  Sometimes I like the border, but I do NOT want it there for my next post.  So please do let me know if you know!

Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir,
Tout Mon Amour,
Neen x

Friday 4 March 2011

And your heels so high, that you can't even have a good time...

(Jessie J... my current love in the music world)


I've been a neglectful blogger recently, I apologise.  And I'm afraid I'm not redeeming myself now either.  I don't have the energy to blog about anything right now, but I'm just here to tell you that I haven't forgotten my readers! :)
I have some brilliant posts coming up... I'm most excited about my guide to festival dressing! :) In honour of the fact I AMAZINGLY managed to get a V festival ticket this morning!  Think Hunter wellies, crocheted cardigans and teeny tiny shorts! 
So I'm still here! Please don't forget about me :) I have a new job and lots of boring essays to complete... but I haven't forgotten.
Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir,
Tout Mon Amour,
Neen x

Friday 25 February 2011

Another rainy day...

Incase you all haven't realised, I'm on a very rainy South Wales holiday at the minute.  I therefore have very much time on my hands and keep coming across these bordem-busting, fashion related things for you all...  Topshop yesterday, today it's ASOS.com.  They are running a budding stylist competition at the minute and they pick ten winners a day!  It's easy too, all you have to do is pick which 3 items you think will be the best sellers on ASOS that day.  Here's my selection:

 

I actually adore these shoes.  I think they are a dead cert to be the most popular... they're so on-trend it's unbelievable!  Denim shorts, such a staple of every girl's wardrobe! Especially as were fast approaching festival season and girly holidays!  I already have some but I know many of my friends still don't have any... and these are a reasonable price too.  Oh and the belt... 'boyfriend belt' to be exact.  I just think that a belt is another staple of the wardrobe and this colour is my fave for this season.  Also, ASOS haven't ruined it by making there be too much detail etc on it... it's simply a brown waist belt.

Go and pretend you're a stylist too and give ASOS your fashion forecast.
You never know, you might win!

Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir,
Tout Mon Amour,
Neen x

Thursday 24 February 2011

Which colour suits me best?

Topshop, you have outdone yourselves this time.  Girls, if you have some spare time on your hands then head over to the Topshop website and enjoy their new make-over application.  It couldn't be easier.  You upload a photo of yourself, preferably a close-up shot and then you play!  You have the option of basically testing all of Topshop's make-up without leaving your house.

   You align your lips and eyes so that the app knows where your facial features lie and where to apply the make-up.








You choose from a wide variety of colours and shades for your foundation, mascara, eyeliner, blusher, lipstick... everything!









If you decide you don't like that certain shade of blush for example, all you have to do is click "remove blush" and it's gone!  You don't have to start all over again, you just take that particular product off.








I discovered this when browsing the recent London Fashion show updates on their website.  Honestly, it's actually really good.  I was sceptical, I thought that it wouldn't work and that it would just look stupid, but it proved me wrong.  Now, with make-up I'm a firm believer in 'you get what you pay for' as I've used low costing foundation and found that my skin reacts badly to it.  I use Bobbi Brown foundation (but I rarely apply foundation at all), Chanel loose powder, Mac blusher, Lancome mascara and Chanel Kohl eyeliner.  I think with make-up it's all about trying different brands and products and finding what works for you.  However, this make-over app is really tempting me to give Topshop make-up a chance!

  This green mascara being my favourite.  I use blue and purple mascara from Lancome (hypnose) as black is just far too harsh for my skin tone... so green wouldn't be that much of a change.  Green goes quite well with my hair too, so I think I'll give this a go.

Honestly girls, if you're bored then seriously go over to Topshop.com and make yourself over!
I had a lot of fun :)

Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir,
Tout Mon Amour,
Neen x

Monday 21 February 2011

It's best to be honest; I hate Primark.

I hate admitting things to you all that you might hate me for.  Yes I know it's cheap as chips and people seem to love the place, but I can't stand Primark.  Genuinely, it's not me being a clothes snob.  Words can't describe how much i've tried to like it; in these terrible financial times I really wish I could shop there and save myself some dollar... but I can't.
I feel the need to explain myself.  Maybe it's because i'm impatient or because I get stressed very easily, but the minute I walk into the store I feel hot, bothered and frustrated.

Nothing is presented nicely.  Primark turned over a profit of £200 MILLION last year, yet they can't seem to afford to employ enough staff...?  Enough staff to manage to keep the clothes off the floor and actually on the rails... or the piles of clothes in a reasonable display rather than being reminiscent of a 15 year old's bedroom?

I find it hard enough to 'root' as it is, but that's just ridiculous. 
  
My other issue is how busy it ALWAYS is.  I know this isn't Primark's fault but I can't deal with the pushing and shoving and the old ladies fighting over a mauve coloured jumper that'll probably fall apart when they get it home anyway.  I also hate the way the escalators are positioned so that you have to walk through the entire shop to get to the next escalator :/ yes Primark, sneakily clever, I know.  But it's torturous when you get stuck behind a 'slow walker' (these are the bane of my life by the way).

And today, when we walked into the shop, the most hideous smell hit me.  I just don't find shopping in Primark a very enjoyable experience, and I absolutely love shopping.  Don't get me wrong, I totally admire you girls out there who can get past all these devastating obstacles and come out with a purchase that you love... but I simply can't.  And i'm through with feeling bad and snobby about it. 
I HATE PRIMARK.
There, I said it... :) that's like a weight off my shoulders.  I hope you can all understand the reasons behind my hatred and don't hate me for it.

Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir,
Tout Mon Amour,
Neen x

Friday 18 February 2011

£135 on a dress?


I committed my cardinal sin.  I entered All Saints without a discount voucher or surplus cash... and now my bank balance is screaming in pain.  I think it's strange how when it comes to shoes or bags, I don't think twice about spending triple figure amounts, but for clothes?  Even though I love clothes, at the rate trends change, I never can justify spending too much on them.  But I made an exception today.  I definitely couldn't afford it and I DEFINITELY didn't need it... but I've been in love with this dress for months....

I love it.  I'm off to Paris in May and I can picture myself wandering along Le Rue De Faubourg Saint-Honore wearing this dress, browsing the plethora of vintage shops and generally being very Parisian. 
I'm sure that when it comes to next week and I have no money to go out with my friends or buy anymore new clothes that I'll kick myself for flittering my money on this purchase... but for now, I'm extremely pleased with myself :)

Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir,
Tout Mon Amour,
Neen x 

    

Wednesday 16 February 2011

You're just jealous, cos were young and in love.

I'm a bad blogger.  I know I said I intended to stop posting so often, but I took the biscuit there really didn't I?  I must admit that I've had a very busy week... so i'll be using that as my excuse.
And I can't even redeem myself with a brilliant fashion post... as what I was going to write about is impossible now.  I'm at my new flat and I haven't moved all my stuff in yet, so therefore I'm without my clothes :/
Never fear though, I do have something to write about... albeit totally and completely off the topic of my blog.

My two favourite bands at the minute (I have four fave bands but I'm talking about the male frontmen today...)

BIFFY CLYRO & BRAND NEW.


(Simon Neil- Lead singer of Biffy)


(Jesse Lacey- Lead singer of Brand New)
I am in love with both these men.  If you discover one new band this year, please make it one of these.  Words can't even describe how much I love them.  The incredible lyrics that I just relate to immediately, paired with amazing guitar signatures and some (ahem) orgasmic singing...  I can't understand how anyone could not enjoy these two bands.

I love this song.  And I hate hate hate that Matt Cardle ruined it... I know people love him, but he's got nothing on Simon Neil.  This isn't my favourite Biffy Clyro song but I do absolutely adore it.  He's so gorgeous!!!!!!!!!


And this one.  I could never choose my favourite Brand New song... I used to think I could, but I can't.  I literally love every song by them.  This one is up there though :)

I know this was a pretty random post considering my normal ones... but this had been playing on my mind.  I hate to think that some people don't know these bands and don't realise what they're missing out on.  Also, I just wanted to browse through endless pictures of my two perfect men :) ahhh... if only eh?

Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir,
Tout Mon Amour,
Neen x

Wednesday 9 February 2011

"Beauty, to me, is about being comfortable in your own skin. That, or a kick-ass red lipstick.”

(Lipstick- Chanel)

Gwyneth Paltrow, I'm not you're biggest fan but you really hit the spot with this quote.  No matter how much of an ugly day I'm having, if I put on some red lipstick, I instantly feel better.  And I really couldn't care less if it's 'too bright for my skin tone' or 'clashes with my hair'... I love it.

I do have a blog post lined up about Jeans and about fancy dress... but I really don't have time right now, which makes me extremely sad.  I'd much rather post on my blog than finish my English coursework off... but needs must.

Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir,
Tout Mon Amour,
Neen x

Monday 7 February 2011

there's nothing wrong with dreaming...

Believe it or not, I am actually trying to cut down on how often I post on my blog.  I fear that my readers may tire of me if I continually bombard them with posts, but this couldn't wait.
www.net-a-porter.com is my idea of heaven and hell at the same time.  I absolutely adore admiring all the beautiful designer items, but then the hell part comes into play when I realise I can't afford ANY of it.

Above is my net-a-porter wish list.  I have to admit, I had some fun making it.  I really like the way fashion sites are starting to catch onto this 'wish list' feature because although I'm not buying it, it feels like I'm making a step towards eventually saving enough money to.
In all reality, the amazingly gorgeous Louboutins are a tad out of my reach.  At least till I'm earning a 5 figure salary.  But the Helmut Lang skinnies (top left) and the Yves Saint Lauren costume ring (bottom right) aren't so unimaginable.  If I just try and hold myself back from spending my money on throw away fashion on the high street, I may be able to treat myself on pay day :)

Try making your wish list on:

www.net-a-porter.com


Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir,
Tout Mon Amour,
Neen x

Sunday 6 February 2011

"the first thing is to try and ignore the smell..."

As promised, my apparently 'narrow minded topshop' posts have been put on hold... On Saturday morning at the ungodly hour of 9am, my very good friend took me for my first experience of charity shopping.  I feel the need to tell you all that my original rant about why I've never shopped in charity shops before consisted of the following: "The windows of charity shops don't exactly entice you inside do they! There's an owl ornament, a dead ladies blouse and a few odd socks!"
May I now direct your attention to what I found in the first shop:
So that made my day really...

I must point out that I was actually really excited.  I'm completely broke at the minute and although my bank balance cries out for me to give it a rest, I must must must get my fashion fix... so the idea that I might find some nice new purchases without flashing the debit card and using the change in my purse instead, filled me with happiness.  As previously stated, I have no problem with charity shops, I'm just not very good at rooting.  The issues I have with charity shops are the same as those that I have with sales... if everything isn't displayed nicely for me, my impatient self just wants to leave immediately.  But with my friend, the bargain hunter extraordinaire, I felt readily equipped to take on the likes of Oxfam and Age UK.
I must now admit to you, that when we first began, I was still sceptical.  My friend managed to find a gorgeous cord blazer in the first shop we went into, but I just couldn't seem to get my head around it.  Nothing was organised into size, colour, style, price... nothing.  Therefore, I had to get over my fear of rooting and delving into the rail in order to find anything nice.
By the second shop, I had got the hang of it.  I found the following gorgeous rings on my hunt and they were both £2! Seriously, £2... I couldn't believe it.
 Needless to say, my friend bought WAY more stuff.  I was amazed at some of the stuff she found... I mean it's not like I saw the things she bought and didn't like them myself... I genuinely didn't see them!  I was uber jealous at this gorgeous chiffon black shirt she found, it was the perfect length to wear with tights or even just heels if you're brave enough.  That's another thing I discovered about charity shops, you have to be willing to look at things that aren't your size.  For instance, most of the shirts my friend bought were ranging in sizes from 12-18!  Don't be mistaken in thinking that we can all pull this off, my friend is blessed with a deliciously gorgeous figure; you could put a bin bag on her and she'd look amazing... (<3 you K)
The following are all the amazing bargains she has managed to bag herself... in all honesty, the price she paid for ALL of this together, probably equals one dress I own.  That doesn't fill me with happiness!
My absolute favourite is the silk blouse in the bottom righthand corner.  It looks stunning on her, I may have to steal it someday soon when she is not looking.... Top right is the gorgeous blazer she found when we went shopping.  I'm also slightly smitten with the top/dress in the bottom lefthand corner.  I do believe it was originally a top for a slightly plump lady, but on my friends lean figure, it works brilliantly as a dress; normally worn with a skinny brown belt.

To sum up, my experience of charity shops was very enjoyable.  I was pleasantly surprised with the range of stock they had and the prices were just the cherry on top of the cake... The most amazing thing I found was how fun it was!  I love shopping with my girls but rooting through the charity shops was much more fun; laughing at the horrendous pieces, sharing amazement over the one off beauties you manage to find... it was a really nice morning.



Here's my five top points if you're a charity shop virgin looking to become a pro:
1. As my friend said to me, DO NOT be put off by the smell. Although this is a bit naughty to say, I do believe it's the people in there that smell rather than the clothes! (just remember your raising the class!)
2. Be prepared to get your hands dirty (so to speak).  Nobody ever found a real gem in a charity shop by browsing, you need to get stuck in- rummaging, rooting and rifling.
3. Do not cast aside a nice piece because it isn't your size...the chances of finding something that's you size and your taste are slim, oh so slim.
4. TRY THINGS ON!  Okay, so the singular changing room isn't exactly a luxury experience, but what did you expect?  Just because it's a cheap purchase, doesn't mean you shouldn't check you love it before you fork out your hard earned pennies.
5.  And finally; don't feel too downhearted if you don't come away with much.  I only purchased my 2 rings and a plain, baggy black top (that I plan on wearing as a dress) but charity shopping is luck of the drawer.  You might find a vintage Chanel blazer with original silk lining... or maybe not.  But it's all about persistence and patience.

I myself am not fully converted, I am still a topshop addict and a sucker for designer labels... but it's nice to know that there's 12 more shops I can look in when I go into town for some retail therapy ;)
Charity shops = massive thumbs up from me!

Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir,
Tout Mon Amour,
Neen x

Friday 4 February 2011

Nails to reflect your mood

Firstly, I would like to congratulate myself on the fact that a few posts ago, I wrote about up and coming model/actress Rosie Huntington-Whiteley... and who's on the front of Vogue's March issue?  Oh, I am way ahead of you Vogue... ;)

Anyway,  I couldn't resist telling you all about this amazing new nail art I've became obsessed with.  My friend received it as a present all the way from Dubai where her dad's living at the moment... and it's incredible.  The basics of it is that you paint your nails with a base colour of your choice.  Then you choose a design.  This is the fun part as you can go for an all over pattern or a flower... there's even little apples or strawberries you can have.  When you've chosen, you paint straight onto the design with one of the nail varnishes provided in the kit.  My friend tells me that you have to use the ones provided as they are a lot thicker than normal nail varnish and that's the whole reason the transfer works so well.  Then, you use the little scraper provided.  It kind of reminded me of an ice scraper you would use on your car but mini...
You scrape the excess varnish so that all that is left is your design highlighted in the varnish colour, then you take the rubber stamp provided and transfer the design onto the stamp... finally, you stamp it onto your nail and you're done.






The designs you can create are endless.  Not only can you change the designs but you can change the colour schemes.  I'm a girl who adores painting her nails.  If I'm bored or stressed, I love getting out my nail kit and sorting my cuticles out, buffing and shaping my nails, applying a base coat and then a gorgeous, bright colour to make my nails look pretty.  Now this nail art is just even better... my friend accidentally left it at my house and I just kept wanting to do them again and again.

If you fancy getting creative with your nails then visit the site:
http://www.konad.co.uk/shop/index.php?cPath=21&language=en

It's not cheap but it's well worth the money... I'm buying my Konad Nail Kit right now.

Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir,
Tout Mon Amour,
Neen x

Thursday 3 February 2011

How to look good naked.

GIRLS, GET YOUR KIT OFF.




So for starters, I have two amazing and very brave friends.  I can't say they were thrilled at the prospect of stripping down to their underwear but it was all in the name of research.  My sources for most of my blog posts tend to be my friends and they are very reliable sources.  Yesterday, I realised that they're all self-conscious about at least one part of their body, which seemed ludicrous to me as they're all gorgeous.  Needless to say, I can sympathise with them.  I hate my love handles, the lower part of my stomach won't seem to firm no matter how many sit-ups I do and my bum causes me constant grief.  However, I am not alone with these woes, my friends seemed to have similar hang-ups about the same areas.

 The lower stomach issue can be caused by the pill.  Now I don't know whether mine is or isn't, but it's nice to have an excuse isn't it?  I prefer that to admitting that I just generally eat too many take-aways...
But having spoken to different people about it, most seem to see this slight bump as attractive.  I've been told by many boys that girls look stupid just straight up and straight down, were meant to have curves and lumps and bumps!  Embrace it ladies!





Next, the illusive love handles.  I have to admit that these cause me the most grief... nobody else can even tell you've got them really but you can feel it.  If I put trousers on that are a little on the tight side or a slightly cropped top... I can feel them protruding out the sides.
However, the old saying 'you need something to grab onto' may not be far wrong.  My male source who shall remain anonymous claims that it's scary to hold a girl and feel nothing but bone.  Not scary in a frightening way but scary in a worrying way, nobody likes to feel a skeleton when they cuddle at night do they?




And the bum... oh the bum.  It's annoyingly hard to maintain and prone to annoying things like cellulite and sagging.  My bum is nowhere near the description of firm, and I know that given a few more years and plenty more greasy food, I'll have a lovely bout of dimples covering the surface.  Depressing? Indeed.  But terrible? Maybe not.
Were all aware that magazines air brush the celebs to high heaven in order to make them look like goddesses and make us feel like we have to be the same, but luckily brave celebrities like Mischa Barton are coming out and saying 'yeah, I've got cellulite... and what?'.  Come on, if it's cool for Mischa, it's cool for us.



The thighs are another killer.  If I had a pound for every time one of my friends said to me 'I hate my thighs', I'd most definitely be loaded.  The thing is would you rather have a bit of muscle and fat surrounding your legs or look like your standing on two tooth picks.  I can't describe how much I cringe when I see people with really really skinny legs running, I literally feel like they're going to snap any second!
So embrace your thighs girls, don't hate them.



When you get home ladies, take a long look at yourselves in the mirror.  Instead of doing your usual trick of picking everything you hate and dwelling on it for the rest of the day, try picking your favourite part of your body.  My girls did it; one's got fabulous boobs, the other is blessed with a perky bum and they both are drop dead gorgeous.  And if you can't see your impressive parts, then get your friends round and they'll tell you what's amazing about you.  Trust me, I've never felt so sexy as when my friends said I had a lovely figure.



 
Embrace the figure you've got girls cos from what I've heard it's downhill as you get older!  Stop worrying about what a Big Mac will do to your body and enjoy yourself!  As long as you don't over do it, you'll be fine.  Besides, the saying 'a moment on the lips, a lifetime on the hips' is a lie anyway...

Girls, we don't need Gok Wan to tell us we look hot.


Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir,
Tout Mon Amour,
Neen x




Wednesday 2 February 2011

hello spring... hello new layout

Wow, that was tough.  I very nearly gave up on changing my layout.  I literally can't describe how hard this HTML business is to grasp... I used to be a bit of a pro thanks to Piczo (really, I used to just copy my two friends BUT still...).
Either way, it's complete!  I'm made up with how the photos turned out from my photo shoot.  I would like to take this opportunity to give a big, huge thanks to Emma Lord and Kimberley McDowell for being my models and braving the freezing cold for me, you two are stars! :)
I changed my layout due to the fact that I'm wildly and blindly optimistic... and therefore I feel that if we all think spring and warm weather, it will happen.  My layout was wintery and depressing me... now it's summery and happy!  As always, I value all my readers opinions so if you have any suggestions as to the new layout or anything you think could be better, PLEASE let me know! :)

I have some really great posts lined up for you including one on body confidence, my love hate relationship with jeans and as promised, my opinions on charity shops... but for now, I have a french lesson tomorrow and an excitable toddler to babysit so I shall have to call it a night!

Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir,
Tout Mon Amour,
Neen x

Friday 28 January 2011

her eyes, her eyes make the stars look like they're not shinin...

Don't you think that we're lucky being girls... I mean if we feel a mess or were having a bad skin day or something we can just pile this wonderful invention called make-up onto our faces and instantly look better!  Boys aren't allowed to do that yet, not really.
Thing is, some girls take it a bit too far.  I mean when did these people get together and say 'yeah, orange is the aim'.  Even with the endless jokes and Facebook groups about 'being tangoed', some girls still insist on caking their face in orange gunk... I'll never understand it.  I don't even wear foundation normally but when I do I use a light Bobbi Brown liquid foundation which just covers blemishes really, rather than changes my skin tone!
Anyway, when I was younger my obsession was eye shadow.  There's a brand called 'Gosh' that I used to love.  I remember Miss Davies shouting at me in school for having 'inappropriate make-up' on.  In fairness to her, I can see her point now.  It was BRIGHT BLUE.  But at the time I just huffed to the toilet, washed it off then re-applyed when she'd gone.  Nowadays, I'm slightly more conservative with my make-up choices.  Dark purple is about as crazy as my eye colour goes, usually is just a brush of light coloured powder followed by a single line of liquid eyeliner, completed with lashings of Lancome mascara.  I'm more likely to have a stand out lip colour on than eye shadow.  But, I think eye colour may be making a come back.  Realistically, i'd never go back to wearing outrageous colours like Gosh bright blue but maybe a few denim blues, or a nice splash of violet now and then.

However, my amazing friend agreed to be my model so I could test a few 'out there' colours and see how they looked... here is the outcome:

The first question you should all be asking yourselves is WHY on earth do I even own pink eyeshadow?  I don't, my friend does.  And I do believe that either makes her hilariously cool or just a serial hoarder of make-up... or both.
Anyway, I was actually surprised that the pink didn't look horrendous.  That probably can be credited to the fact that my friend has gorgeous eyes but still, it really looks okay.



This one was a mix of blues.  We started with a really light blue as a base and layered the lid with darker blues, then we drew underneath the eye with an aqua blue.  The photo doesn't really do it justice, I apologise.  But actually would recommend this... my friend really suited the blue as she has bright blue eyes.  I have to make sure you realise at this point that the blue I used to wear was nowhere near as understated as this... seriously, it was BRIGHT blue.



I'm sure we've all experimented with this look a good few times. The Taylor Momsen look as I call it... to be fair, she pulls it off pretty well.  I'm a firm believer in drastic lipstick OR dark eyes.  Never combine the two, you look like you're trying too hard... but for the sake of my blog, my friend agreed to commit the cardinal sin.  To be honest, I think it looks quite cool in the photos I took BUT I wouldn't really advocate her wearing out... leave it to Taylor and the emos.

I could've carried on for hours painting my friend's face but her little brother needed a lift home.


Really, taking photos today was like a practice run for me.  On Sunday I have my wonderful, helpful friends coming over for a full day photo shoot for my NEW LAYOUT.  So take it all in, because hopefully come Sunday, the layout will be all set for S/S11. Fingers crossed.

Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir,
Tout Mon Amour,
Neen x

Thursday 27 January 2011

Rosie V Megan?

Megan Fox is not my idea of a nice girl.  I know you shouldn't believe everything you read but the papers don't paint her in a nice light... the way she treated the people on the set of transformers etc.  Anyway, apart from being wildly jealous of her taut, toned stomach, I really don't think she's that pretty... and I never really like people that everyone else likes.  Rihanna is the one exception to this rule as I have a major girl crush on her as does every other person in the world at the moment, but she's just WOW.
Anyway, so being a bit of a girl, it annoys me that all the boys I know fancy Fox and I really was pleased when I heard that she would not be in the new transformers! HA.
But who would replace the illustrious Megan?

Rosie Huntington-Whitely.  She can be seen here modelling Victoria's Secret's new range of lingerie.  I've also read that she recently became a Victoria's Secret 'Angel' which is the highest rank of model within the company... Impressive.

Now I admit, she's not my kind of girl.  As previously stated, Rihanna is my girl crush.  I have a love for Hayley Williams and Audrey Tautou... and I can sometimes become slightly smitten with Ellie Goulding.  But our Rosie here has replaced Megan Fox... that shoots her way up in my opinion.  The only thing I've ever liked with Megan Fox in is Eminem's- love the way you lie video and I think that was because it's Eminem and I couldn't bring myself to dislike anything he does as I love him...  So this is a real treat for me.  The fact that Rosie is a full on hottie just sweetens the deal. Chat forums have suggested that she may be a little on the skinny side, but she's airbrushed anyway! And besides, it'll only be jealous people saying that really... I know I'm jealous as hell of those toned abs and defined legs.

*sigh*.

Anyway, I just thought I would share my good news with you readers :) I hope Foxy is wishing she hadn't been such a douche now.  If Rosie could breeze past Megan in FHM's sexiest women list too, well I could die happy! :) Also, just to confirm I'm aware she looks very similar to Meg, but shush!

Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir,
Tout Mon Amour,

Neen X

PS.  I'm aware I promised my next post to feature on charity shops but I haven't had chance to do any research into them yet in the form of actually shopping in them... But don't worry, I haven't forgotten!

Wednesday 26 January 2011

“When we judge or criticize another person, it says nothing about that person; it merely says something about our own need to be critical.”

Today I experienced the first of many hurdles I expect all journalists have to face.  Criticism.  
Now, in my opinion criticism is always constructive whether negative or positive and I always try to learn from what other people say.  I value all the opinions of my readers and if any of you ever thought I wasn't right in something I said or had an idea of what I should write about etc, I would be very pleased to hear from any of you.
The thing I don't like is 'bitching'.  In fairness, the only people who feel the need to bitch are those who aren't brave enough to say it to the person's face.  My friend told me that a girl I went to school with wasn't impressed with my blog as apparently I 'only shop at topshop'.  I find this strange because I've written many posts and only a couple have been about topshop.  I admit, Topshop is my favourite shop!  But I don't see how that means I can't write a fashion blog?  I've written about a wide variety of shops but that's not the point.  The point is; I imagine that when I am a journalist I will have to cope with narrow minded people making ill-informed opinions about me behind my back... however, it all seems a little high school. 
I'm not forcing people to read my blog and I don't expect everyone to enjoy it.  I write because I enjoy it and other people liking it too is just an added bonus.  I really appreciate everyone who reads this blog and for those who don't enjoy it, feel free to give me some constructive criticism.  I would never ignore someone's opinion and to prove this; my next post will focus on the advantages and disadvantages of charity shops.  I myself am not an avid fan, that mainly comes from my inability to trawl through unorganised rails, but I have seen people wearing some real vintage gems from the likes of the British Heart Foundation etc.  I hope the theme of my next post will please my first critic and I also hope that people will soon realise that bitching on Facebook isn't the way to act like a grown-up.  I feel like I'm a better person for realising this and I hope others will follow suit.


As Coco Chanel once said- "Elegance is not the prerogative of those who have just escaped from adolescence, but of those who have already taken possession of their future." 


Let's not act like we have just escaped adolescence?  Chanel wouldn't approve.


Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir.
Tout Mon Amour,
Neen X

Sunday 23 January 2011

what NOT to wear...

Trinny and Susannah may have been onto something to be honest.  I went into Revolution (the bar) in Liverpool for the first time in ages on Friday night and I have to admit that I wasn't impressed with the fashionistas.  Liverpool has always been a city for which people associate fashion with, or so I'd like to think.  We've got the Cavern Walks shopping centre where the likes of Coleen Rooney, Alex Gerrard and even Cheryl Cole (rumour probably) can be found perusing Cricket or Vivienne Westwood... and then there's the high street stores for those of us who don't have the will power to save up for one designer piece when we can have 20 pieces from Topshop!  My point is that I was let down.  I saw one girl wearing a polo shirt style dress that really reminded me of  the 'Donnay' sports dresses my friends and I wore to school in the summer when we were 11.  Another fashion disaster was a girl wearing high-waisted shorts with a stripy blue and white vest top paired with silver slingback sandals that would have gone better with a prom dress... I must admit that those shoes are a pet hate of mine anyway.  But she had also matched her bag to her shoes which I feel can sometimes be a bad idea. 
Admittedly, if you're wearing an LBD (little black dress) and you throw on some statement red heels with a red bag to match... well that's simple and effective.  But the posh prom shoes and sparkly bag looked completely out of place with her denim hot pants and sailor themed top.  I think people sometimes find it easier if you tell them what NOT to wear, rather than what to wear.  For instance, without naming names, I have 1 friend who I think dresses perfectly for her figure and style.  She has real individual flair and never fails to look effortlessly gorgeous... my mum made a point that an eye for fashion may well be one of those things that you've either got or you haven't. In that case, this friend definitely has got a knack for it.  However,  I have another friend whose wardrobe full of clothes thrills me every time I go round.  I love her style, it's very thrown together, very grunge yet feminine without being girly though... the problem is she has maaaasive boobs.  She tries to hide them by wearing things that just end up making them looks ten times bigger anyway when really she should be embracing the fact that she has a cleavage- god knows I'd kill for one!  So I do think that being told what to steer clear of is much simpler than having a rule book of what you're allowed to buy... 

Having said all of the above, there was one girl in Revs whose outfit I really wanted to steal.  She had dark blue skinnies on, a plain top that I didn't really take much notice of, and a jacket... oh the jacket.  It was a camel coloured blazer with leather pads on the elbows and it was ever so slightly cropped... I was in love.  And not to mention the heels, huge platformed red ones with a multitude of straps and they were just to die for.  I've been desperately trying to find a picture of either the jacket or the heels online, but alas no luck.

But, I can offer you this little catwalk video of my outfit I had on that night:


     
I went pretty casual, but I'm literally in love with this jumper I have on.  I bought it from Reiss in the sale and it's so soft and it fits so well :)

Anyway, I best be off. I am very tired and I need to get up early tomorrow!

Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir.
Tout Mon Amour,
Neen X

Saturday 15 January 2011

Vogue, strike a pose.

"Sometimes, when I was really broke, I'd buy vogue instead of food. I just felt it fed me more"
- Carrie Bradshaw

Words can't describe how much I agree with this quote.  As much as people who know me will find this hard to believe, I'd even prefer to buy the most recent issue of vogue than clothes.  I literally can't get enough of it...
So you can imagine my happiness when the best friend's belated Christmas present to me arrived and it was the Vogue Covers hardback which I've been staring at longingly in shop windows for the past few months.  It's amazing, I just love looking at all the covers.  Models intrigue me, I don't really have that thing where they make me feel bad about myself.  I'm more of an admirer.  I accept I'll never look like them, so I just allow myself to admire their beauty and that mysterious, distant look they all have in their eyes.

So I've been trawling through it desperately trying to pick my favourite covers from the vast selection so that you can all get a feel for how amazing it really is.  I narrowed it down to a shortlist, but I know when I've posted this I'll find another one that I adore.  So I'd probably expect quite a few blogs about this one readers...

Okay, so this one is a bit of a given.  This, according to my book, was the first vogue cover to feature an actual person.  So it was inevitable that it would make the favourites list... I mean the previous covers were interesting and some of them were so arty and thought provoking... but vogue wouldn't be vogue without all the gorgeous models or stars on the cover.







Now, I also have to admit that this one is a bit of a cheat too.  But after seeing Brit Eckland on I'm a Celebrity last year, I was intrigued to see what she looked like when she was younger. And WOW.  This photo of her on the June 1966 issue is simply stunning.  I have a particular love for the hair too.  She's just amazing.  Those eyes... god, if anyone could make me wish to look different it's her.










So Kate Moss and Vogue go hand in hand really.  As far as I can tell, she's the most featured model in Vogue.  But this one is  my favourite.  This is her first ever Vogue cover before she was famous... she looks so innocent and young!  It's photographs like this that make you realise just how naturally beautiful she is.  I'd kill for her bone structure, I really would.






And lastly, but certainly not least.  The people's princess herself.  This Vogue cover featuring Diana was to mark her death in 1997.  I have to admit, I'm not one of those avid Diana fans, but I did like her. And I certainly admired her elegance and beauty.  The reason I love this cover though is for the simplicity. A really casual photo, she looks really natural... and there's no headlines of what features in the magazine that month.  The sole focus of the cover is her and that lovely, effortless smile.

So my final point... anyone who loves fashion, I urge you to buy this book.  It really is a gem.
A million thank-yous to my best friend for buying it for me :) <3 you.

Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir.
Tout Mon Amour,
Neen X





Friday 14 January 2011

Wow, now that's a statement


Words cannot describe how much I love this photo.  It's off the Topshop website advertising their imminent spring line which I can't wait for!
I wish I had this girl's cheek bones in order to pull off her pixie cut... but I especially love the contrasting blue nail varnish to the red lips. I have a Barry M nail colour very similar... I think I may have showed you all a few blogs back.

If I can get away with this much red with my hair, this will most definitely be my coat for this year's festivals.  I love it.

<3

Thursday 13 January 2011

Fashion's Biggest Crime?

As per, the new year has brought resolutions aplenty by all my friends vowing to drop a dress size, get that bikini body or just change their eating habits all together for a more healthy lifestyle. My Facebook is literally inundated with statuses broadcasting how much weight has been lost or how much exercise they've done that day... I have to admit, it's making me feel pretty self-conscious. I don't think I'm fat, I may say it from time to time when I'm stressing but I know I'm a healthy body shape. However, I definitely eat far too much of the bad stuff. Well, in my opinion the good stuff... but you know what I mean.

My question is, how much of a role does the fashion industry play in body anxiety?

I know every article you ever read on the subject blames the media.  Magazines depicting gorgeous, slim women set targets for young girls that we feel like we have to reach and maintain.  I'm not sure if I agree though, I mean I don't think the media is completely to blame... and even if they are, what is so wrong with aspiring to be thin?  In our country, we now have the first generation of teenagers that could die before their parents due to their weight... so why are we condemning people who make an effort to stay thin? I'm not talking about anorexic girls... that's a whole different story. But those people who are size 8/10/12 even 14 is a healthy size and who make the effort to exercise regularly and eat fruit and veg, they should be rewarded not made to feel like they've done something wrong.  I commend all of you out there who make a conscious effort to maintain your figures and exercise.  I wish I had the will power to eat healthily... I really am going to try though.  I think everyone should.  New year, new you and all that... Come on girls, we can do it together! :)  I'll keep you updated on how I'm doing and I'd love for you all to let me know how you are all doing!

Pour Maintenant, Au revoir.
Tout Mon Amour,
Neen x

Monday 10 January 2011

Hello Lover...

My favourite words ever uttered by the legendary SJP... but in my case my lover is a bag, not shoes.    

My birthday shopping trip to London resulted in me spending way too much money on this deliciously gorgeous Miu Miu clutch bag.  The best friend had to convince me that it was worth it... I was trying to be sensible and use some of my birthday money to pay off my hideous overdraft but this clutch kicked my sensible self's butt.  It's made of the softest leather I've ever felt in my life and the smell of it whilst standing in Harrods surrounded by all those designer handbags was intoxicating... plus I must admit that there was a part of me that wanted to buy it to prove the snotty sales assistant that I could afford to!
Anyway, this was my 'piece de resistance'... however, it's terrifying actually taking it out the house. I do feel much happier when it's safe in it's dust cover in my handbag box. The trip itself has to be described as intoxicating too. I mean, London, wow.  I know that so many people hate it, but I loved the fast paced, ruthless hurry of the city.  I may be deluded but the way everyone rushes around like there's no tomorrow... they all have this look of steely determination painted onto their face. Not the tourists, no. You can tell who are the tourists and who are the Londoners, because the latter are rolling their eyes at the others. I want to be in the latter, I want to be able to navigate the tubes like a pro and shop in Harrods every weekend rather than just every birthday. To say I was mesmerised would be an understatement.  France is where I want to settle and write for Parisian Vogue, New York is where I want to do my christmas shopping every year, Monte Carlo is where I want to holiday and London... London is where I want to put myself on the map, be a young professional and gain all the possible life experience I could need. 




London, congratulations.  You've officially been promoted to fourth favourite city.       
        
Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir.
Tout Mon Amour.

Neen x



Tuesday 4 January 2011

I have a topshop abuse problem

I seriously do.  I go walking through Topshop with my best friend and I must repeat the sentence, 'I've got that', a dozen times. It's ridiculous, I have more clothes than my mum and she's the one with the huge walk in wardrobe! However, Im not really one for variety.  I mean I'm an Urban Outfitters lover and an avid fan of River Island heels... but Topshop is my main clothes shop.  I guess most girls my age would say that, but seriously... at any given time you ask me where my top is from, or where I bought my dress... the answer is 99% Topshop. 
It's my birthday this Thursday and my parents are giving me money to go shopping in London :) perfect present for a shopping lover like me...however depending on the cash sum they give me, I'm torn on what to spend it on.  Half of me wants to go all out and treat myself to a really flash bag... Miu Miu or Michael Kors... something I'll love and keep forever. The other half of me wants to buy the whole of Topshop :)


Topshop doesn't make me decision any easy with it's trends for spring 2011. I love these 2... both started taking off in 2010 but didn't totally come into fashion.  However 2011- they're gonna be huge!
I can't wait :)

Maybe I will treat myself to a designer piece... and save my topshop addiction for the spring lines!

Pour Maintenant, Au Revoir,
Tout Mon Amour,
Neen x